Who We Are
We are Caralyne and Derek, partners in everything
As Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists, our mission is to support individuals like you in improving your emotional well-being and nurturing healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
Our Vision
We worked independently as therapists for years, bringing compassionate and dependable care to people in need within our community. We recently decided to realize our dream of working together as partners in building Arrival from the ground up, with you in mind.
Through Arrival, we aim to challenge ourselves to be the best therapists we can be, to give ourselves the flexibility to be real people with you, and, most importantly, to offer you the best client care possible.
We value collaboration and healthy communication in our personal and professional life together, and we believe that our partnership gives us a unique advantage in the field of Marriage and Family Therapy. We believe that, together, we can create space for collaborative mental health care that has a genuine impact. We long to see a better world for all of us, where we can find ways to do more than just get by.
In this spirit, we invite you to join us in a therapeutic journey that values authenticity, mutual respect, and growth. It is our honor to accompany you on your path towards emotional healing and relationship transformation. Welcome to Arrival. You are not alone, and your journey begins here.
If you're considering therapy with one of us, please continue reading to understand more about our therapeutic approaches and perspectives.
Derek Schoffstall, LMFT
Co-Owner of Arrival and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Education: B.A. Psychology, Gordon College; M.S. Marriage and Family Therapy, Fuller Theological Seminary
Specialties: Marital, Couples, Infidelity, Family Conflict, Young Adult, Self-Esteem, Codependency, Identity Formation, Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Faith/Spirituality.
Contact: derek@arrivalcs.com; (717) 559-0405.
Imagine a future where you're not just surviving, but thriving in your personal and relational life. This journey is rooted in the belief that it's never too late to reach out for help, and that positive change is always possible. Whether you're working through personal challenges like self-doubt and anxiety, or navigating relationship issues such as communication barriers or infidelity, I am here to support you. Our goal is to transform these challenges into catalysts for growth and relational healing.
Centered in empathy and authenticity, I deeply respect your unique experiences, feelings, and goals, ensuring that our work together is tailored to your individual needs. Understanding your perspective is crucial, and I strive to help you address your challenges in a manner that is meaningful to you.
I believe in the transformative power of therapy as a courageous step towards empowerment and lasting personal growth. Together, we will delve into the depths of your experiences, acknowledging and validating your past pain, while courageously stepping towards a hopeful and joyful future. Your journey towards emotional healing and relationship transformation begins the moment you decide to reach out.
Whether you're an individual seeking support or a couple in need of direction, I'm fully committed to guiding you on how to live a peaceful life with yourself and others. I look forward to the opportunity to serve you and your relationships.
Caralyne Schoffstall, LMFT
Co-Owner of Arrival and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Education: B.A. Psychology, California State University San Bernardino; M.S. Marriage and Family Therapy, Fuller Theological Seminary
Specialties: Codependency & Boundaries, ADHD in Women, Relationships, Depression, Grief & Loss, Self-Worth, Anxiety, Life Transitions, Faith/Spirituality.
Contact: caralyne@arrivalcs.com; (717) 489-2049
There is no shame in being a “work in progress.” Each of us is one — myself included. I am a human being just like you, and I am here to say that it is okay to be where you are. It is okay to ask for help. Therapy is a unique and sacred space in which there is no judgment, only room to explore the origins and outcomes of your struggles. Whether those struggles be in areas of identity, self-worth, depression, anxiety, relationships, trust, boundaries, illness, loss, transitions, or spirituality, I am here to help you make meaning of whatever it is that troubles you.
If you feel that you have lost all hope, you may borrow mine. If your burdens are too heavy to bear alone, you may share their weight with me. If you are stuck in survival mode, I’d like to help you find a way to thrive.
Sometimes our happiness is hindered by the lies we believe about ourselves or our loved ones. We see evidence of this in our daily lives at work, in our relationships with family and our children, and in our marriages. I want to help you find the truth. When we operate out of truth, our lives change in ways we never thought they could. When we have awareness about ourselves, we can actually choose to make those changes.
I want to empower you to make choices for yourself. Who do you want to be? What do you want your relationships to look like? In which direction would you like your life to go from here? No matter how impossible it seems, you can make change happen in your life — as an individual, as a couple, or for your children — for the better. You can find peace and hope again. And you don’t have to wait any longer to get started!
While I sometimes wish there was a magic pill that could heal our hearts instantly, I know that there is no quick fix. Healing takes time and effort. Therapy is a powerful process through which we can pursue wholeness and chase our potential to become our best selves. All it requires is that we are honest with ourselves and commit to doing the work. Sometimes the road is long, but the destination is absolutely worth the journey. I would love to join you in yours.
